I became a wife 16 years ago to my husband, Barry. To say it has been smooth sailing would be a lie, but we have had many adventures together that has lead to many smiles and tear of nope not doing this again. We are not a perfect couple, but we get one another and that’s all that matters. It doesn’t matter if the world understands us for we understand us. I do the beat I can by my standards,(not what other people say I should be doing) to make sure his work uniforms are clean and ready, that he has a good meal to eat each night, and that we spend some time together as a couple. Is this perfect well maybe for us it is.